By: Jessica, U.S. Coast Guard Spouse Remember the awkwardness of a first date? Well, that’s kind of how it feels when looking for a real estate agent every time we move. We’ve tackled six moves in 14 years of marriage, so you can be sure I’ve had plenty of first-date feels when trying to find the right fit with a real estate agent. It’s crucial, by the way, to have the right fit. Wondering why? #1 The agent profits from your sell/buy. #2 The agent pushes/works your sell/buy.